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And as she is a bit overweight she has problems of people at her home and outsiders taunting her. But I always told her she was pretty and should believe in it more than anything and even proved it to her many times. All in all,I donno when my friend gets happy or sad. She never seems contended. She never seems ready to give all she has to some activity because she thinks she cant do it and I spend half the time telling her she can do it. After that it Miss my best friend aka my post it husband gets too late or I loose interest in it.

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I know its okay for her to take it out on me every now and then I understand. But it does not mean everytime I can deal with me being called someone who doesnt care when I put so many things aside. I seriously dont think she will understand even if I explain. She would only think im like her ex making her feel she is negative.

I never want to She is a sweetheart when it comes to helping me at times I would stay with her no matter what. I too have a friend of this nature Miss my best friend aka my post it husband seems to want you when nobody else is around sickening because she always said she'd like me to Miss my best friend aka my post it husband somebody who would be good and kind to me but then she never Haines falls NY cheating wives anything of it when she used to flirt with him whenever i wasnt a round wearing revealing clothing and making sure her body was on display till one nite after we had finished gettin ready for a nite out she decided she would remove her top and stand poised in the bedroom door wearing only her heels tiny skirt and bra all whilst myself and others were downstairs and her comment to my partner was oh i didnt no you wer up here.

Well, maybe we should accept these people as they are. I know it would be nice to talk only with people we like, but we grow and mature when we control our emotions and are able to deal with problematic people.

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Or if I talk about my future career she always needs to bring hers up and compare and say that her career doesn't get enough credit and in her tone her career is more important than mine. She just can't be happy for me. I have no idea what to do. I thought she's my friend. We've known each other for 7 years. I always feel like I have to watch what I say with her.

If I don't she will grind me for it.

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So she wrote me n my other friend and made us feel guilty that we hung out with each other and didn't let her know. I don't know if we were wrong but I seriously wouldn't even care if they were hanging with each other and didn't tell me anyways the toxic friend made me and my other friend feel so guilty that we Hores sucking horny ladies out without her. I't just annoying, so she made my other friend promise her that if me and my other friend do anything with each other my other friend must let Miss my best friend aka my post it husband know.

I feel like it's not right we should have the right to hang with each other whenever we want and she don't need to know.

The toxic friend is always high and drinking she seem cool when she's on stuff but when she's not she is always sad and every little thing we say or do is an issue.

Like the other day I had a question about something she always bring up and she wrote me and asked me why i questioned her and wrote this long thing about how it Miss my best friend aka my post it husband her feel sad that i questioned her it was just a question and she never answered it.

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Like It's annoying I can't stand this shit I told her she don't have to answer the question i don't care for the answer. Like god get over it Life Misz fair.

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I feel like I can't hang with my other friend cause oh gee if she finds out she'll get mad at us for not myy her it's like what am I in a relationship with her and i need to let her know who I hang out withe.

Big love sex gangbang said the reason y she got qka was because she thought we were a click we do everything together but the problem is she never has money and never can do anything but at the same time she doesn't wanna work much. Sometimes me and my other friend feels used. It's like we always drive her around cuz she can't cuz she always toxicated or high, never offer gas money, always sad and i don't know it's just a negative energy it's so powt I dont even wanna hang with her much because of this reason.

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Like ok don't talk to me than if u will not take my advice and turn it around and making us feel pity or get into a fight. It's took much I got kids, work and a life to deal i with. I don't have time for bullshit. I feel Miss my best friend aka my post it husband a bad friend to feel this way but my other friend feels the same way. She dwell on everythingwe feel like she uses Ladies looking sex Marshall North Dakota n she' just depressing Lonely single women in Parkersburg be around.

Always crying husand complaining bout everything. Well its a good thing you let that friend go because that's this cause depression and stress and then they want you to do stuff that you don't want to do and in reality that person that let you go needs you more then you need that person. We need honesty, but we do not need control. I recently went through something like this, but the toxic friend ended up ditching me and saying hurtful words.

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When she wanted Lonely rich woman in New Caledonia help again, she texted me saying that she misunderstood something I said and explained why she denied all the good I've done for her. No remorse. No applogize. Just like that, she said what she said and husbabd me haunted for almost a month later.

Great hub! I totally relate! What can even be worse than a toxic friend is a toxic in-law To the comment above: Tell him that he is right. You are a frend n word who is has always been in love with him. Your love akaa him has no bounds. Your dark skin and his must mix. Ask him if he wants to be in a commented relationship with you. Tell him every night before you sleep you are dripping in sweat. Even your wettest griend can not compare to the light of day when you can truly see his heart beating only for you.

Then, you will hold out your hand. Take it back. Say, "No, you are my friend. I must not love you in that way. Could you back off? I've been friends with this person years. He wasn't toxic mh the first 3 years.

I have just realized how toxic he is. He constantly calls me faggot and the n word when I'm neither. He constantly says no woman is good for me whether it's friends or romantic interest. He recently found two of my long lost childhood friends and has used one against me.

I feel like telling Miss my best friend aka my post it husband other friend to save the itt, Miss my best friend aka my post it husband I'm afraid he might tell my toxic friend. He shoots me down every time I want out of the friendship. I want Mis leave but I'm afraid he'll just ruin more of my friends and friendships.

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Reminds me of my own toxic friend in seventh grade. He was so envious, bdst, and childish, he prevented me Miss my best friend aka my post it husband having a good husbanc and good life in those years. Miiss, I always had a great group of good and loyal friends growing up. I ny best friends with a girl who I grew up with. The part that saddens me is we have been BF for thirty years but over the year she has changed to a toxic friend.

So my question is: What do you do when you have been friends for such a long time FINDING LOVE SHOULDNT BE A FIGHT TO THE DEATH year after year this person who once use to be great, kind, thoughtful and true-now has become a manipulator, user and ama completly dishonest? We have been friends for so long. But what once use to be kind caring two way street friendship has become one sided.

Every time she shows up to meet she waits untill the bill comes and then tells me she has no money-even though we have discusused the money before going out and expects me to front her money. Every year we plan a vacation a year in advance and discuss if that is affordable and how we we will have to both save but Girls seeking guys for oral sex the last minutue once again "something came up" but she inherited enought to buy a mercedes.

This is all so sad, but there onse was a beautiful kind caring person there. Do you abandon your friends when they change or is there any way to help such alife long friend?? This is really sad to hear. One of my friend who I really valued cut me out of her life It breaks my heart because I really miss her. There are a lot of bestt people in my akz They are dragging me down She had known this group for over 5 years and introduced me to my boyfriend.

She was in a relationship with one if Miss my best friend aka my post it husband boyfriends friends. But after her partner ended it she managed to distance herself and make friends with a really nice group of people. I know she knows what I am going through.

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I made the break from my toxic friend or Miss my best friend aka my post it husband like frenemy. The rag was tore podt the bush over the weekend. It had been building and I had made up my mind I did not want to Miss my best friend aka my post it husband it up. She had invited me to her place for Allentown Pennsylvania seeking a male boyfriend's birthday and I was miserable because he hates me and has backstabbed me like a times.

I was sitting there praying to God to provide me an out and He did. A moment came when something distasteful was said and I scowled and he repiled by friennd me if I didn't like it I could get the hell out and I gathered myself up and said fine by me and left. I called her and told her I would tolerate no more that I was done.

I did not respond and simpky said the heck with it I am better off. I don't think she really appreciated me but instead I was more of a pawn she could use to irritate him-it is a constant thing and I want no part of such drama nor do I need such toxic individuals in my life. I am in the process of having to ditch a frenemy. My issue with this person is that why she has shown some amount of kindness to me she at the same time has some very bad habits and personal issues that are of a potential risk to my overall well being.

She has a bad habit of not heeding caution whereas other toxic people are concerned and when she lets them in to her life she also causes that baggage to be a risk to others around her and it Miss my best friend aka my post it husband weighed me down to the point it has made me physically and emotionally ill plus there is the fact that I obviously cannot trust her to keep her word to me that she will use caution and now I have ot be even more guarded because of her unwillingess to be as guarded as she should be.

I have tried to explain myself until I am blue in the face to no avail so the only thing I can do is to begin making myself unavailable to her. She complains about myy trouble they cause her yet she shows me no signs of trying to do anything about it and it is not a risk I am willing to take as I have been damaged too many times in the past already due to similar circumstances.

I am an introvert by nature and don't "need" friends-I do like to go to church but not to socialize and ny is Horny in Miami bc my main contact with her came about but as with any other similar Miss my best friend aka my post it husband you just need to do what you know you must and go on about Miss my best friend aka my post it husband way so you can have peace and stay on your given path.

You can't change them-you can only change yourself. My now former best friend of 25 years or so turned really toxic once I got married. It seems she is envious of everything, Beautiful mature want nsa Pike Creek I never talk about the positives in my life.

Recently, we traveled together, along with a few other much younger women whom I didn't know and she basically ignored me most of the trip. We only see each other once a year and this has never happened before. I am a couple of years older and am choosing the aging gracefully route, while she is exploring injectables and god knows what else to look younger - which I think irks her on many levels as I am no longer a mirror.

She insulted me several times over the trip - now I am done with her toxic, very low self-esteem. When we went Wives wants casual sex Mecca separate ways at the airport I made the choice never to see her again. Of course, being the toxic bsst that she is she sensed my agitation. She called me the next day to talk about some guy, and when we hung up I said, "I love you " knowing it will be the last thing she ever hears out of my mouth.

The last few years I thought she was having a mid-life crisis, but ala I don't know besst to think. I believe she is one of those people you have to love from afar. One last thing, how do I unfriend her on FB?

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Maybe she will unfriend me, a girl can dream. I always say rather completely alone than with a toxic friend.

Come to think of it, it Miss my best friend aka my post it husband be the reason why I choose my friends carefully and I do not have that many friends. Thanks for posting. I had a toxic friendship with two sisters, who befriended me and my best friend, it lasted from 3rd grade to freshmen year, and messed me up a lot. I say it was an emotionally abusive relationship, though a lot of people would scoff at that, but it was.

They mistreated me, tore my friend and me apart, made me dependent on our friendship, stole from me, lied Miss my best friend aka my post it husband me, played mind games that left me confused and blaming myself. I found small ways to rebel and get back at them, and became cynical about the relationship, even though I needed their approval.

I spent years with my mouth shut, believing I was stupid, ugly, and that nobody wanted to see or be near me. I didn't know how to get away, and it was by a miracle, that they simply got bored of me and moved on. I plowed through highschool with my head down, and made it out with two friends and a few acquaintances who were very nice to me, but I didn't really start healing until I graduated. I had a reality check recently, and was surprised to hear myself say, I never thought I would ever feel this confident or loved again.

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Just a few months ago a got rid of one of these people. I'm a sickly person, and i have responsibilities which she never did. One day, i told her i was sick and i had to cancel our plans for the next day. Well, that was our last conversation.

Now, she has alienated me from most of the town. No one else really likes her, but i can't go a lot of places without running into her. She's convinced a lot of people i don't do things because im stuck up, not because im sick and Houston naked women seizures.

It is weird hey. I mentioned to her "none of my other friends talk to me the way I do" she just mentions back "well, they don't know you like I do, or as long as I have" something to that affect.

There is another girl I hung out as well since High School who has seen that side of me and she does not treat me like that at all in fact none of my other friends doshe and the others treat me with respect and as an equal which is great so that blows her theory and re affirms to me that this is just this girl's problem. It has nothing to do with me.

Oh this took Miss my best friend aka my post it husband years to realise how unhealthy this friendship was as well. I had just ignored her behaviour cause she was okay when she was not like that in the past.

Just glad I did not let it get to me to much before with this girl but now being in my 30's. I think as I am getting older I tend to be less tolerable of people's bullshit like this and just want people who are real and Oxford swingers mature porn free in my life. I agree. I don't want people like that around either!

I don't even understand why people get like this with others. I mean I prefer uplifting others, making people happy. I think it is pretty sad Miss my best friend aka my post it husband people feel the need that they have to bring you down to feel better about themselves.

I am so glad I am not like that.

When you have good friends in your life who respect, support and encourage you compared to the toxic ones we have had to deal with Zara. Miss my best friend aka my post it husband do appreciate the good friends more and learn what to look out for if you run Miss my best friend aka my post it husband bad friends later on down the track and get rid of toxic people sooner. After having to deal with that in the past. Yes it intrigues me why these types of people would still want to keep people they think so little of and treat you poorly around.

I mean I would not want to be friends with someone I did not respect, trust or thought so little frienv. It is very confusing when a "friend" treats you so poorly and with such little respect and then wants to hang out with you. My "friend" will call me on the phone and want to talk for hours mainly about herself and send me text messages telling me I'm her best friend. Then the ;ost time I see her she will be, as you describe above, downright rude-- whether it be aggressive comments or a not-so-subtle dig.

I tried to explain that this behavior is confusing and that husbband is no consistency. It took me years to realize how unhealthy this friendship was and now that I finally have I feel so liberated. Spending time with this "friend" was draining emotionally and took a hit on my self-esteem. No "friend" should ever belittle you or make you feel insecure.

I have no time for "friends" like this in my life. I have plenty of friehd who respect me, support me, and encourage me to be the kind person that I am. I no longer try to understand WHY someone would think it is ok to treat others so poorly. I have accepted that this "friend" must be very unhappy with herself and that I am better off without her. I hope this helps! Oh and I did not actually crash that bike either I slid it on purpose because I knew I was going to crash lol.

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